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Flexibility: Part II, The Big Decisions

In this blog about flexibility as the hallmark of mental health, I will explain my thoughts about how increasing our awareness of our inner lives and using that awareness to be more flexible in the way we do things will greatly increase how good we feel about the direction our lives have taken. This is ...
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Flexibility: Part I, Flexibility is the Hallmark of Mental Health

  What would it be like to have many more choices about how to respond to people in your life–your husband, wife, daughter, boss, the grocery store cashier? What if you could predict how you will feel in different situations and have a good idea of how you want deal with those feelings ahead of ...
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Our Christmas Miracle

This is a story of a Christmas Miracle about our precious little dog, Julian. For those of you who do not celebrate Christmas, either because it is not consistent with your culture or belief system, or because you for other reasons simply choose not to participate in this holiday, please bear with me. I actually ...
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Choose your anxiety: Focus on what you know

This blog is part of a series of blogs that begin with the phrase “Choose your (insert feeling).”  These blogs are based on the concept that our entire range of human feelings are all designed to provide us important information about our experiences and situations; information which can be crucial for telling us how we ...
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A Theme for the Holidays: Stay frosty, stay flexible

Conflict, Part 3: Resolving conflict

Confllict, Part 2: The problem of conflict avoidance

Conflict, Part 1: “What is conflict?”

12-Step Recovery and Therapy, Part III: Using these ideas with clients

12 Step Recovery and Therapy: Part II, my own sobriety

12-Step recovery, Part 1: its influence on my identity

The Problem of “Situational Identity”

The Relief of Humility: “I am just some guy”

Co-dependency, a way out

How important is your past in therapy?

Forgiveness and Letting Go, Part 1

Choose your anger

Feelings, good and bad, make your choice

What is “verbal abuse?”

A Tribute to Abraham Lincoln

When is an apology really an apology?

Choose your guilt

The Holidays are your time too!

Effective Management: Balancing the Key Ingredients

Meaning and purpose without limits

Happiness is a side-effect of meaning

Depression and Anxiety: Flip sides of the same coin, Part 3

Depression and Anxiety: Flip sides of the same coin, Part 2

Depression and Anxiety: Flip sides of the same coin, Part 1

Substance and Process

What is “Mental Health?” Part II

The Forest and the trees

“To the weak I became weak”

What is “mental health,” Part 1

Thinking in thirds

“Solutions, not problems”

DEA and CIA–Making Better Decisions

Authenticity–Part 2: Why it is important

Acknowledging the problem is not enough

Gestalt Prayer by Fritz Perls

ADHD and Therapy: beyond medication

Authenticity: Being with your-self

Anxiety–a story of two powerful mistakes

Anger: is it ever a good thing?

Abuse and Self-Love: stop the myth

Boundaries